Quirk’s & Kink’s

 Life’s  Anecdotes – Everybody looks for  something :  “Unique”  “Fun” “Whimsical” &  “A Desire to be Different

                                

 

A Collection of anecdotes and maxims is the greatest of treasures for the man of the world, for he knows how to intersperse conversation with the former in fit places, and to recollect the latter on proper occasion.

                                     Welcome to Quirk’s & Kink’s….for Thought  !!!    

                                                    

 

 Accept myself for who I am-all my kinks, quirks & faults, because without them I would be someone else ………I AM HAPPY BEING ME  !!!!!  …… I”m at my best in lesiure attire, barefooted, jeans and a comfy top for casual walks along the sands on the beach,  or walking the trails for fun and adventure, or romping in the grassy fields, stopping to pick all the daisies.

Life can have many good moments, if we take the time to look at life through rose colored glasses and taking the time to smell the roses, as life has many blessings to offer and much to be thankful for.

 

“We may not know how to forgive, and we may not want to forgive; but the very fact we say we are willing to forgive begins the healing practice.”~ Louise Hay

Forgiveness comes in different shadows. There are times we can forgive and move forward, but it’s hard to erase. Speaking from my own experience, when I have forgiven-it has helped me to be able to move forward.

Harboring un-forgiveness elaborates on getting stuck in the time-building  unwanted walls and hardness of the heart. It’s far better to be able to let it go, to give the heart room to breathe a sense of fresh awareness. Breaking the chains of a battered heart.

“If you carry your childhood with you, you never become older.” …… Tom Stoppard

I firmly believe in listening to my inner child’s voice. She knows me better then I know myself-she will guide me on the right path, if Igive her access to my thoughts. In not trusting this inner voice, holds many hidden secrets.

We  can fear this  inner-voice at moments because of  the possibility that, maybe, as a child, when you needed attention or attending to, you were ignored and your needs were not adequately or properly met.

One’s first step in wisdom is to question everything – and one’s last is to come to terms with everything.

It turns out that facing the hard facts is something that human beings are remarkably bad at doing. We “shoot the messengers” who bring us bad news; we seek, remember, and act on bad evidence that supports our devout held beliefs; we avoid, forget, and fail to act on evidence that clashes with our ingrained stubborn minds for reasons; not to try something new.

FAIRY TALES CAN COME TRUE — Hunting for that Happily Ever After…….

There is not a person alive that likes everything about himself or herself.  Each having our own little flaws. In searching for the perfect partner leave some room for seeing him/her for who they are. For its the differences that make for building creativity and happiness. If we were perfect, don’t you think it would get very boring?  Fairy Tales can come true; its looking in the right direction. Sharing a life  as best friends, lots of laughter, moments of tears, experiencing new adventures,  are positive tools for being in an everlasting relationship.

“You can’t change the wind, you can however adjust your sails.”
– Unknown

Life can hand us many ups and downs. It’s a choice to adjust our sails, for smooth sailing for getting through the stormy seas. I face many let downs, to stay focused on them, only keeps me a prisioner in my own entangled web.

To be able to see the light in our personal storms, and know “this too shall pass”, and when it does, we will be even closer to our destiny. When the storms are around us and on the verge of clearing it away and the light is ahead of us, we can see it in , the glow surrounding the beautiful rainbow.

All men hate to hear  “We need to talk about our relationship”   These seven words strike FEAR in the heart of  every man; even General Schwarzkopt.

“A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life.” ……Richard Bach Quotes….American writer

My favorite quote:
My life is like a stroll upon the beach,
as near the ocean’s edge as I can go.
- Henry David Thoreau

I love the beach, its my safe haven for ridding all my troubles and woes. To recharge my awareness to all the beauty around me. To have that special “Me Time” for reminiscing with my inner voice.

Every once in a while I just like to stop and experience one of those “ahhh moments!” making me feel a little warm and tingly, and a feeling of pride or even helplessness! We all have these moments and typically never forget them as they make an imprint within our lives. So often these times can be quite a humbling experience, especially as I put deeper thought into them.

                            

Frumpy is the new funky- according to the 2011 runways for fashion.

I may not be in line for being the world’s top model, but I enjoy wearing what makes me! “ME”

Accept myself for who I am-all my kinks, quirks & faults, because without them I would be someone else ………I AM HAPPY BEING ME !!!!!

“I have seen the sea when it is stormy and wild; when it is quiet and serene; when it is dark and moody. And in all its moods, I see myself.”
santiz……Martin Buxbaum

I love to experience those “serene moments” for reflecting on my inner thoughts.

“Life is a shipwreck but we must not forget to sing in the lifeboats.”

We experience many moments, of disappointments in life, survival is like moving through a deep fog, as in time  bringing  an awareness to  our  inner strength. As, we swim through this fog and the choppy seas to our lifeboats; we will find direction for these storms that come into our life.

                “What – Men – Think “

I have been trying to figure this one out all my life!

Just as a man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a problem, a woman is fulfilled through talking about the details of her problems…….
John Gray…..Men Are From Mars-Women from Venus

Never leave the one you love and who loves you in return. Even if you think it’s over. Even if you’re sure it’s hopeless and breaking up is inevitable. ‘Cause I did love once and I was sure that it was the end, I’ve lost my faith/ I left the person, who genuinely loved me, left for a Game, which, as I used to think, was the very meaning of my life.

And now I regret it. I regret I couldn’t see and appreciate the feeling I was looking for my whole life.. And now, if I could have one lifetime wish, one wish that would come true, I’d pray to God with all my heart for yesterday.. and her..she loved me with all her heart.

Everybody looks for something : “Unique” “Fun” “Whimsical” & “A Desire to be Different

You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation

“if your wearing lingerie that makes you feel glamorous, you’re halfway thereto turning heads”……….~ Elle Macpherson

Accept myself for who I am-all my kinks, quirks & faults, because without them I would be someone else ………I AM HAPPY BEING ME !!!!!

 

Take control of your destiny. Believe in yourself. Ignore those who try to discourage you. Avoid negative sources, people, places, things and habits. Don’t give up and don’t give in. — Wanda Carter

  

“The soul would have no rainbow had the eyes no tears.”

When it’s over … she feels the echo; the echo of his touch; the silence of his voice; leaving a wound that never heals, a sad and broken heart, a void forever.

Often times we say goodbye to the person we love without wanting to. Though that doesn’t mean that we’ve stopped loving them or we’ve stopped caring. Sometimes saying goodbye is a painful way to say I love you.
………… Unknown

Accept myself for who I am-all my kinks, quirks & faults, because without them I would be someone else ………I AM HAPPY BEING ME !!!!!

I think today, they all went too far. Their jeans got too low, their tops got too see-through. Personally, I think that sexy is keeping yourself mysterious. I’m really an old-fashioned girl, and I think I’m totally sexy…….Stevie Nicks

“Why would someone jump out of a perfectly good airplane?”?  “Waste of a Perfectly Good Airplane !!!

I love to fly, with a few hesitations, because of the tragic incidents that has taken place in our country, to cause our Airport Security” to be on overload. But, to jump out of a perfectly good fying airplane makes no sense to me!! I love new adventures, and big thrills,but this one I’ll have to pass.

  

“And by the way, everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise. The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.” ~Sylvia Plath

“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.” …”Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadow” Helen Keller

“May the love hidden deep inside your heart find the love waiting in your dreams. May the laughter that you find in your tomorrow wipe away the pain you find in your yesterdays.”

 “Once in a while, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale.”

“Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls”  ……Kahlil Gibran

Brokeness-  “Looking back, I have this regret, that too often when I loved, I did not say so.”… David Grayson

 

 “I believe all suffering is caused by ignorance. People inflict pain on others in the selfish pursuit of their happiness or satisfaction. Yet true happiness comes from a sense of peace and contentment, which in turn must be achieved through the cultiv”…Dalai Lama

“Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any of us can convince ourselves we are.

 

 “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.” Roy Croft

 

 “Sometimes you have to let go to see if there was anything worth holding on to.”

 

“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”… Maria Robinson